The Perfect Partner Workbook
A Guided Action Plan to Overcome Relationship Challenges, Build Deeper Connections in Your Current Partnerships, and Lay the Foundation for Powerful, Fulfilling, Perfect Future Relationships.
You’re about to embark on a transformative journey that will revolutionize how you approach relationships. Contrary to popular thought, the above title isn’t bullshit. Perfect relationships do exist. I’ve spent the last 5 years of my life cultivating perfect relationships in my life that I’m completely satisfied with. You can do this too. But in order to create perfect relationships we must be willing to submit to the possibility that they actually can exist.
This workbook is designed to empower you to create deeper, more authentic connections—whether with someone you’re currently in partnership with, your colleagues at work or someone you’re hoping to meet in the future. Using our proven EDE Framework (Envision, Define, and Enroll) and completing the impactful and inspiring exercises we’ve included in this document, you’ll open new doors to relationships built on trust, authenticity, and mutual growth.
Why Is This Important?
Relationships are everything. They shape your world, your experience, and your future. And yet, most people settle for what they have—without realizing they have the power to create something extraordinary. This action plan challenges you to stop accepting what’s familiar and start building relationships that are rich with trust, depth, and mutual growth.
What Is The EDE Framework?
1. Envision:
The only reason we aren’t experiencing relationships that truly expand us is because we’ve limited our imagination of what’s possible.
We’ve been hurt, told we’re not enough, and conditioned to compare ourselves to others who seem to have it all together. This has shaped our beliefs, keeping us trapped in a narrow view of what we think we deserve. But here’s the truth: if you’re not willing to confront and delegitimize these limitations and envision a relationship that goes beyond anything you’ve experienced, you’ll never see the full potential of what’s possible. It’s time to break free from the stories that have been holding you back and imagine a relationship that blows your current expectations out of the water.
2. Define:
Envisioning your ideal relationship is powerful, but without defining it, you’re just dreaming.
Defining is the moment you put your vision into words—how do you want your relationships to feel, look, and function? Writing things down makes them real. It turns vague ideas into concrete goals and activates your mind to start working towards them. When you define your relationships you create a roadmap that your mind can follow, bringing clarity and focus. The act of writing anchors your vision, transforming it from an abstract idea to something tangible and inevitable. It’s not just about what you want; it’s about claiming it, in writing, and making it happen.
3. Enroll:
To invite the possibility of a perfect relationship with others into your life, they must be moved, inspired and drawn to join you on a shared vision.
When most people try to ‘fix’ their relationships or create boundaries in it, they often use language that feels combative rather than proactive. This in turn, puts people on the defensive and disincentivizes them who are considering working with you to make something greater than what they currently have. In this section we’ll show you how to create powerful language and communicate your vision in a way that elevates, inspires, and enrolls others into the same possibility of a perfect relationship side-by-side with you.
What's in it for you?
You deserve relationships that don’t just fill space—they elevate you, challenge you, and propel you into a life of undeniable growth and fulfillment. This action plan gives you the tools to rewrite your relationship story and create something that’s powerful, intentional, and authentic. Imagine being able to approach every relationship with clarity, confidence, and the unwavering belief that it can be everything you’ve ever wanted. It’s time to stop playing small and step into the relationships that truly fulfill you.